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Question: My forgetful father-in-law lives alone. Yesterday, he left a pot on the gas stovetop, and the next-door neighbor noticed smoke from the kitchen window. It was a narrow escape. 

We must act now to find him safer surroundings. He is house-rich and cash-poor. His large house will command a $6,000 monthly rent. Plus, he has a military retirement income.  

It is important to note that one of his adult children will move into the home when he passes. So, selling the home is not an option.  

What options are available to families in our situation? 

Answer: The accessory dwelling unit (ADU) is a practical solution, a backyard home that can be built in place. Prefabricated ADUs are popular and can be easily installed with the help of a crane. This video may also provide more information.

A junior accessory dwelling unit (JADU) is attached to a home. Many have doorways with access to the primary residence. JADUs can vary in configuration. Primary bedroom suites, basements and lofts become JADUs. In your case, older adults need fewer stairs, not more.

In the meantime, check the active-adult apartment communities in your area. There might be one with a cafeteria.

Consider the invaluable assistance of a local senior care adviser. They have a wealth of knowledge and can guide you through this resizing process. As you gather information, remember to replace your father-in-law’s gas range or stovetop with an electric one.

Today’s goal is to keep him alive. Tomorrow’s goal is to reduce his isolation and increase his socialization.

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He is based in his hometown of Sunnyvale, California.Office: 408-245-7700; Broker# 00979413 Pat@SiliconValleyBroker.com